My beautiful friend, one of the biggest mistakes you can make in a relationship is to crawl for him, to be submissive, and the worst, to be DEVOTED to him. It isn’t at all attractive to seem clingy, spoiled, or even, in some situations, unbalanced.
Everything you did to conquer this man can go down the drain if you present yourself like this… And he’ll see you as a repellent woman, instead of admiring you as the unforgettable and magnetic woman that you are (or that you can be… It’s up to you).
After all, my friend, think about it: Who enjoys to be with a person who can’t spend 5 minutes without attention, who does everything for the other, and who doesn’t give the other any space to have some freedom?
Do you want to know how you can be crawling for him without even realizing?
- Do you send messages all the time through WhatsApp, and he might even answer, but he never starts the conversation?
- Do you leave your schedule wide open on the weekends and wait for him to invite you to do something?
- Do you immediately accept every single one of his invitations?
- Do you tell him absolutely everything that happened during the day, even what you had for lunch?
- Do you find his life incredibly interesting?
- Do you laugh at all of his jokes, and think that he’s the funniest guy in the world?
- Do you speak highly of him to all your friends?
- Do you cancel engagements to be with him, and make sure that he knows that?
- Are you at his disposal all the time, for anything?
- Do you get mad when he doesn’t answer your messages quickly, or when he says that he needs some space?
- Do you get all pretty for him, and when you meet him, you notice that he hasn’t even showered for you?
If you’ve identified yourself in at least three of these attitudes, it’s time to stop IMMEDIATELY! In this post, you’ll see why you should NEVER, EVER, EVER crawl for a man, and why you should always try to be in control of your relationship with him.
If you find it hard to control these impulses, my friend, and when you notice you’re there, worshipping him, waiting for him to throw you a bone, know that I can help you control yourself better and avoid becoming this kind of clingy woman that no man wants around.
Yes, sweetheart, I’ve already helped thousands of women, and you can be sure that I can help you too. For that, you’ll have to learn the behavioral techniques to not only induce him to do whatever you want, but also to predict his actions.
My friend, this is not sorcery or black magic, it’s just BEHAVIOR. Action and reaction. We’re mental, psycho- and biomechanical beings. Which means that we learn and move through stimuli from our environment, and, in this case, you’ll either be reacting to his actions or start being the action that will generate a consequence in him. What I mean is, you’ll learn how to control him through your actions.
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Now, if you don’t notice these changes, my friend, it won’t take long until you see a bad result:
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THE DISTANCE
Sweetheart, you’re not a fool. You must have noticed in many situations of your day-to-day and your love life that no one can spend too much time around a needy person. On the contrary: the more a person sticks to you, the more you want to get out.
It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you, my friend. Learn this:
Not liking YOU is different from not liking your behavior. Do you see that?
When a man knows that a woman is crazy about him; does everything for him; puts him above everything else; doesn’t have emotional intelligence and self-esteem; is only capable of having fun when he’s with her; doesn’t have any other interest besides his… What do you think he does, my friend???
Exactly that… He leaves. He gets out. He loses interest. He feels sick with her. Generally, this happens bit by bit, and you don’t notice it. Then, one day you look, and he’s gone.
And why does he go away? Have you ever wondered why?
He goes away, sweetheart, mainly because, for men, there’s no interest in conquering something that’s already there, ready to be hooked, and at his disposal at all times. Remember this:
Nothing motivates men more than the challenge of conquest.
If you’re completely available, they feel that the hunt is over, that there’s no more game, and the flirting vanishes. Their desire goes away, and you already know the result: He just steps back and looks for a real challenge.
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YOUR SELF-ESTEEM GOES DOWN THE DRAIN
When you overvalue him, you undervalue yourself.
After all, if you’re independent, if you’re your own boss, if you know your goals, if you have attitude and know what you want, crawling to him will show exactly the opposite: a needy woman, pedantic, and who needs him to be happy.
If you seem weak, emotionally fragile, uncontrolled, he’ll promptly replace you with something more interesting… More challenging. Besides, you might lose your self-esteem, which is very important not only for love, conquest, and seduction, but also for many other areas of your life. Your professional and social life, for instance…
Did you know that your self-esteem has a direct influence over your libido? Yes, my friend… And when your libido is low, you stop emanating pheromones, and become a dull and blurred person.
Leave that attitude for repellent women. Learn how to be a Magnetic Woman who attracts everyone for yourself and has control over every situation. That’s what you want, isn’t it?
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HE’LL CONTROL YOU
Speaking of control, don’t forget that, if you start crawling for a man, he’ll have complete control over you.
When a man evokes emotions that you don’t control, he’ll use these emotions to dominate you.
It’s like he has an emotional “REMOTE CONTROLLER”, capable of raising and lowering your emotions.
My friend, it’s easy to think about this. If you say ‘yes’ to him all the time, if you’re always running after him, asking where he is, willing to leave stuff from your life behind, just to be with him, what is he doing to you? He’s controlling you! And it happened because you let it happen, by crawling, humiliating yourself, and becoming emotionally dependent on him.
You’re there like a puppy that runs to receive its owner when he gets home; stays quiet when the owner says it; eats and barks only when the owner wants or lets you; and goes running back to him after a fight or an argument.
And what happens when he notices that?
He realizes that he’s the boss, sweetheart, and that he can decide how your relationship is going to be.
THAT’S WRONG!!! You should always be the boss, and never let him be it.
ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE?
Sweetheart, I believe you noticed that, if you crawl for a man, he’ll abandon you very soon. If you’ve acted like this until now, don’t worry. We can’t change the past.
Starting today, you’ll no longer be a dull, clingy, dependent, and repellent woman, and you’ll become an independent, seductive, interesting and attractive woman for men.
They’ll be at your feet from now on, my friend! Isn’t that wonderful? And that’s what is going to happen if you follow my tips from now on.
Be prepared…
So, if you want to be a Magnetic Woman, I can teach you how to be more confident and control the situation. Then, the man of your dreams will knock on your door and crawl for you, and not the other way around! You’ll be your own boss, and you’ll have him by your side, in a real relationship.
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Vanessa de Oliveira.
