Does opportunity really make a thief? Can we not trust anyone when it comes to sex, food, friendship, and love?
When we talk about the four topics I mentioned above, my friend, we’re talking about the four “natural reinforcements”, in order: Pleasure, Survival, Belonging, and Procreation.
Think about how motivated we get when the topic is related to pleasure. We go out at night, we go to clubs, we dress up nicely, we take care of our look. All of that searching for Pleasure, isn’t it? Of course, in this case, the force that moves us is our internal drive towards procreation. In other words:
Nature, in all its intelligence, used pleasure as an incentive to raise our procreation chances and guarantee the continuity of our species.
On the same path, when we talk about the pleasure of eating, it relates to our drive towards survival and preservation… That’s why we are capable of feeling so much pleasure that it can become a compulsion.
Now, my friend, imagine an apocalyptic reality where all these resources become scarce. Several movies depict this, and you don’t even need to go to fiction, just think about wars. What happens to us when resources become scarce? We fight with one another to eliminate competition, don’t we?
So, from that principle, it’s important for you to realize, my friend, that we’re naturally competing. Even though we live in a society capable of providing enough resources for all of us, it gets ugly when it comes more specifically to sex or food.
Of course, as social and mental beings, we’re guided (or at least we should be) by our character… But how far can we let the strength our values alone guide us? Or worse, to what extent can we trust other people’s character?
That’s because, my friend, sex is a bridge to immediate pleasure, as is food. Both relieve tensions and even generate pleasure.
Just observe how people can argue and get into conflicts over MONEY. It’s no surprise, since money is a universal reinforcement that can guarantee food, sex, “friends”, and “love”.
Do you see how it goes?
This is just the introduction to the topic I want to talk about, related to a story a student told me which caught my attention exactly because it involves two of these questions: sex and friendship.
When it comes to these two, my friend, is it wise to trust the people who are by our side? Would you trust yourself if you were involved in a case of mutual attraction between yourself and your friend’s husband?
I want to share this story with you, so that you can also reflect on it and, who knows, become more alert if you’re in an impending situation like that.
Ready?
QUESTION:
Dear Van, my disappointment couldn’t have been worse. One day, I got home – MY home, by the way – and caught my husband on my bed with my best friend. We always had barbecues together, I took her to my house myself, and I sometimes even left them alone… How naive of me… I must be an idiot. Even more, when I caught them, my dog was also in the bedroom, barking and watching everything. Now, I can’t look at him, at her, and not even at my own dog. I’m very disappointed. The question is: What is the best course of action?
Mary Disappointment
ANSWER:
My friend, I’m really sorry for your dog. Really! But that can’t be said about the other two. Send those bitches (your friend and your ex) out barking, because what they’ve done is outrageous. I know how bad you feel, because you were betrayed twice and you don’t even have your best friend’s shoulder to cry on.
But look on the bright side of it: You killed two dogs with one stone! And now you can make new friends and find a new love, because the ones you had before weren’t worthy of the woman you are.
My beautiful friend, the best you can do now is to focus on yourself, on your future after what happened, and on how to carry on with your life without him.
That’s why it’s extremely important to keep your individuality, that is: Your professional and financial foundation, your friends, your family, your self-development, and your health. That’s the foundation that will support your decisions from now on.
Don’t waste your time on them anymore. Don’t listen to them, just do it. The best you can do is to leave and let them have each other, and the main thing is that he has to leave your life naturally. Go away for a weekend and, when you get back, he and his things can’t be in your house anymore.
About your pain, my friend, you must work on that, there’s no other way. The main thing right now is for you to get rid of both of them and, later, analyze how you’ve made it easier for them to get to that point. Because, thinking objectively, if they dared to get that far, my friend, you must have made things very easy…
I’m not justifying their actions, but… We’ll talk more from now on, I’ll help you see the signs you must have let slip, and, the next time, you’ll be more alert and will stop it from happening, OK?
But, please, forgive your dog. I’m sure that it was barking there to protect you. All I can think about are those times when you got home and it was barking desperately, certainly not to ask for a cookie… Anyway, keep your true friend and send those bitches out of your life.
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And you, reading this story, my friend, have you been through something similar, or do you know anyone who’s been or who is in a situation like that? Share it with her, it can help her to open her eyes before something worse happens.
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