Self-knowledge is the first step to develop yourself to the maximum.
Many people, my friend, mistake PRIDE for arrogance or vanity, and tend to think that “being humble” means “lowering your head” and inhibit or repress their own qualities to avoid being called a “SHOW-OFF” or, as some people love to say: “LOOK HOW FULL OF HERSELF SHE IS!”.
It’s important to be careful not to mistake PRIDE for arrogance and know that the pride we’re talking about here is that feeling of pleasure, of great satisfaction with your own value, your own honor:
We’re talking about pride as ACKNOWLEDGING yourself.
I must remind you that we were brought up in a Judaic-Christian culture, which values humbleness as a sort of abasement. And, for us women, it’s even harsher, because we’ve been taught to be submissive and servile.
You might think: ‘Van, you’re overreacting. I’m free to do whatever I want.’ That’s what you think, sweetheart.
Our parents were totally repressed in their time, and we carry in our unconscious minds, whether we like it or not, a blaming system that still insists to judge us all the time, in a higher or lower degree, for whatever step we take towards freedom and the emancipation of our true feminine power.
My question for you, my friend, is: Are you ready to recognize the best in yourself? Are you ready to undergo a radical transformation, by looking at yourself in a new way? Are you capable of leaving behind this image that you’re used to having of yourself?
If yes, my friend, it’s time to open yourself to the only person that can help you rebuild your image and awaken the truly great woman that hides inside of you…
Yes, sweetheart, the result of my work with thousands of women speak for itself, and, if you’re here, it’s because you know that. Take my hand, and let me show you, in a practical way, HOW to achieve all of this through a failproof step-by-step, my beautiful friend.
Working on your pride is very important, because it has a direct link with your work on your SELF-LOVE, and it’s only through self-love that we can improve our self-esteem and refine the way that people see us.
Despite what people say, sweetheart, there’s no harm in it. After all, we must be the first ones to recognize the result of our efforts. Otherwise, how can we go on? How can we stand out and show our particular traits?
It’s time to leave behind that repression disguised as “humbleness” and start developing and acknowledging everything good in yourself.
Look at how far it can go, my friend:
Once, I was talking to a student who felt bothered by people saying that she had only gotten to her professional level because she was PRETTY. I asked her: ‘Do you think you’re pretty?’, and she said ‘yes’, but that she didn’t want to lose merit or have her skills diminished by her looks.
I asked her what she thought of Renato Russo’s voice – a Brazilian singer. She immediately said that his voice was beautiful.
Then, I asked her if she thought that he sang well. She laughed and said: ‘I have no doubt about that!’ Then, I asked her what would happen if he had a beautiful voice, but if he hadn’t developed the technique to use it as he did: A man with a beautiful voice, but a bad singer. Would he have been so successful?
Finally, I guided her to the thought that his voice was naturally beautiful, plus he developed the appropriate techniques to use it as he did. Being born with a naturally “beautiful” voice doesn’t take anything away from his achievements, since he worked very hard to use his voice well, and that without mentioning his amazing lyrics.
Similarly, there’s no use in being naturally beautiful if you’re sloppy, if don’t take care of yourself, or if you don’t have intelligence or seduction power… Beauty, in this case, would be just on the outside.
‘My friend, look in the mirror,’ I told her. ‘Start being proud of your beauty and use it well, knowing that beauty alone doesn’t do anything, what counts is all the work and care that you have with the things around you.’
So, my friend, be careful with people who, in some way, try to put you down. ACKNOWLEDGING YOURSELF is the foundation for you to be a confident, psychologically healthy person.
This is only one more tip for you to be alert and avoid falling into the trap of people who call themselves “elevated”.
If you want to know more and learn how to explore the BEST OF YOURSELF, become my student and learn about this and other ways of improving your self-esteem and avoiding the mediocre traps laid down by “humble people”. You’re not mediocre, my friend, stop thinking like that from now on, and let me show you how to value yourself the way you deserve to.
What I keep asking myself is, if you’re here reading this text, how much time have you wasted in life being a mediocre, dull, and incomplete person? Do you really want to keep being like this, my friend? Or do you believe that you have something really special to show the world?
And, if you don’t know me yet, my beautiful friend, my name is Vanessa de Oliveira, I’ve been studying the human behavior in relationships for years, and, as an authority in relationships, I want to teach you, as I’ve already taught thousands of women, how to know yourself so that you can evolve in several areas of your personal life, your social life, your professional life, your love life, and so on…
I’m sure that, when you learn the lessons I teach in my courses, you’ll come out as a truly powerful woman, because they are the result of years and years of dedication and study, helping thousands of women who are in the same situation as you (and many others as well). The testimonials speak for themselves. Check it out:
TESTIMONIALS
These are just some of the thousands of testimonials I receive daily, my friend. And they don’t stop coming. I believe that, as an intelligent woman, if you got to here, you certainly are willing and want to go much further, don’t you?
We’re talking about behavioral structures, and, to reach this knowledge, my friend, all you have to do is follow my instructions and be open to learn more about yourself and about men. Everything is going to happen even without you noticing it… When you see it, you’re already there…
My friend… Besides learning about The Power of Unshakable Self-esteem that a woman can reach when she really decides to be powerful and confident, you’ll learn seduction techniques in ‘Be Seductive Above All Else’, a module that will show you how to use your power to captivate and reconquer men. By the end, my friend, you’ll be ready, and you’ll know everything about seduction techniques and how to make him take interest in and fall in love with you once again.
Self-knowledge, self-love, and self-esteem, sweetheart, have everything to do with our ability to attract, seduce, and captivate people. These are completely intertwined, and that’s exactly what I want to show you, my friend. And I guarantee: You’ll be amazed by your evolution in a short period of time.
And speaking about time… Every minute that you let go by is another minute when you could be developing yourself and learning through the practical exercises that I present in my classes.
Now, the best part – since this is the topic of this text – is what you’ll find in the module: How to Be a Goddess… In this module, you’ll learn how to be a well-resolved woman in bed and, of course, out of it too, learning everything about sex and the importance of this powerful energy in your life: LIBIDO!
I’m waiting for you, my friend. Come with me.
Much love to you.
Vanessa de Oliveira.
