The first thing that you need to realize, sweetheart, is that, for a relationship to work, it’s important for the woman to take the lead. Why? Simple… Because it is part of a woman’s nature to look for relationships, while the man has a natural impulse to go away, to move on by himself looking for “new adventures”. Become the queen that you can be, my friend, and make the “adventurer knight” the king that will rule by your side – neither above, nor below you.
It’s veeery common, my friend, for a woman to be submissive to her husband, boyfriend, hookup, or whatever kind of relationship you have with him. But it doesn’t mean that you must give in to it, my friend. On the contrary: you must pay attention to it right away and change it.
Because, sweetheart, men despise submissive women and, even though they might have a relationship with a woman like this, it doesn’t mean that they love or desire her. It’s just that it’s comfortable to be in a relationship when you (in this case, him) dominate the relationship… You certainly don’t want to keep a relationship like that, do you, sweetheart?
It’s time to turn the tables, my friend, and I’ll show you not only why that happens, but, most importantly, how to reverse it, so that you can occupy your true place in the relationship.
What happens is that many women don’t realize the situation they are in, simply because they don’t know any other reality beyond the one they live. They have been conditioned to live like this, and just don’t realize it.
That’s why it’s important, first, that YOU realize that he dominates the relationship. Because, back when you were a child, your father was the boss in the house. He had the last say in everything, and I’m sure that your mother was submissive and did whatever she could to please him.
When the relationship between the parents is more balanced, chances are that the woman will have more freedom and will be more comfortable taking the dominant role. That’s because this woman wasn’t conditioned since childhood to be submissive to her father, who will later be emotionally replaced with a husband, boyfriend, etc.
I never get tired of reading stories from my students saying: ‘Van, he treats me well, and he’s gentle, caring… That’s why I want to stay with him’. My friend… Know that being ‘gentle, mindful, caring’ is THE LEAST HE CAN DO…
You don’t have to stay with a man because of it. You have to insist on a man who you love, who challenges you, and brings out the best in you, my friend… The aspects that I said above are natural, they shouldn’t be seen as “qualities”.
In these messages, I see how women are ill-treated in relationships… They are treated so badly that they accept the minimum as a measurement for the “ideal relationship”.
Stop it, my friend… If you keep seeing these basic things as the ideal attributes to start a relationship with a man, you’re telling yourself that you don’t deserve something worthy of the woman you are.
More than anyone else, you’re degrading yourself, and settling for the minimum. So, sweetheart, men will pick up on the message and do the least they can, because they know that this is enough for you, and they’ll hope that you’ll be grateful for the “men” they are.
Get out, my friend… You can’t treat yourself as a plebeian and live on the crumbs of the royal banquets…
Over time, if you don’t leave the situation, they’ll get bored, because you won’t be any kind of challenge. All of us (both men and women) like to be challenged, and that’s what stimulates us and make us admire the person who’s by our side.
If you continue to be like this, my friend, submissive to him, he’ll be able to keep you by his side while he looks for other challenges. Of course, deep down he knows that he controls you, and that you’ll tolerate a lot of things before finally doing something.
Ok, but HOW CAN YOU REVERSE THIS?
Are you prepared to start investing in yourself and building your autonomy? By the way, do you know what AUTONOMY is?
AUTONOMY is the result of LIBERTY + SELF-CONFIDENCE + RESPONSIBILITY.
What I mean is: to have autonomy, you don’t have to make him SUSPECT you… On the contrary, all you need to do is take him out of his comfort zone and destabilize him…
As you build your own life inside the relationship – your plans, your friendships, your investment in your personal and professional life – he will direct more and more of his attention to you, I’m sure of that.
So, my friend, learn how to take him out of his comfort zone and DESTABILIZE him. I can assure you that most relationships that actually work out do it because the WOMAN is in control. But I’ve said that already.
Are you ready do turn this situation over?
Then, come with me. I, Vanessa de Oliveira, will teach you HOW TO DOMINATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP, step by step, and not only because you want to dominate him, but because, statistically, the relationships in which the woman dominates are more likely to take off.
I’ll teach you everything I know, and I’ll even talk to you directly through the Magnetic Woman Club, where we can help to improve the emergency situations in your relationships together, and answer your questions about conquest, seduction, attraction, sex…
I’m sure that, when you learn the lessons I teach in my courses, you’ll come out as a truly powerful woman. They are the result of years and years of dedication, helping thousands of women, and the testimonials speak for themselves. Check it out:
TESTIMONIALS
These are just some of the thousands of testimonials I receive daily, my friend. And they don’t stop coming. I believe that, as an intelligent woman, if you got to here, it’s time for you to change, and you know how much you wanted that moment, right?
And, if you think that there’s some sort of “magic” here, there isn’t. I’ve been improving my techniques and guiding women so that they can develop the techniques in themselves. Just that.
We’re talking about behavioral structures, and, to reach this knowledge, my friend, all you have to do is follow my instructions and be open to learn more about yourself and about men. Everything is going to happen even without you noticing it… When you see it, you’re already there…
Over the years, I’ve been diving deep into the study of human relationships, and, as a result, I’ve created courses that will really help you to become a better woman in every sense of the word. See, for example, what I’ve got prepared for you in the course Magnetic Woman: 30 days to transform your life:
Module 01 – The Power of Unshakeable Self-esteem
In Module 01, you’ll have access to the first pillar: When a woman really decides to be powerful and confident. We’ll work on your self-esteem.
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In Module 02, you’ll learn how to use your power to captivate and reconquer men. By the end, you’ll be ready, and you’ll know everything about seduction techniques and how to make men take interest in and fall in love with you!
Module 03 – How to Be a Goddess
In Module 03, you’ll learn how to be a well-resolved woman in bed, learning everything about sex and the importance of this powerful energy in your life!
You’ll learn how to become a Woman of Steel, capable of putting your love and sex life back on track. Is this what you want?
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This is the perfect step-by-step to awaken the Powerful Woman you have inside of you, and to prepare you to deal with situations like the one we discussed here.
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I’m waiting for you! Much love to you.
—
Vanessa de Oliveira.
